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Break Free from Self-Doubt & Step Into the Love You Deserve
Feeling stuck in the past? Struggling to trust yourself again? Tired of attracting the wrong relationships?
You don’t have to do this alone. Together, we’ll heal past wounds, rewire subconscious beliefs, and help you step into your power—so you can attract the love and life you truly deserve.
I know what it’s like to feel stuck—wondering if you’ll ever break free from the past, doubting your worth, and fearing you’ll never find love again. But I also know this:
You CAN rebuild confidence, trust yourself fully, and attract aligned relationships.
Hi, I’m Nikki Gillanders, a mindset coach specializing in helping divorced women heal, reclaim their self-worth, and step into the love they truly deserve.
Using my proven UNSTUCK Method, I’ll help you break free from limiting beliefs, release emotional baggage, and confidently step into a new chapter of life—one where YOU are in control.
I Know What It’s Like to Feel Stuck in the Past...
💔After my divorce, I felt lost. I doubted myself, struggled with self-worth, and kept attracting the wrong partners. No matter how much I tried, I found myself repeating the same painful cycles—feeling like I was failing at love and life.
✨It wasn’t just about relationships—it was about ME. My beliefs, my patterns, my subconscious programming.
That’s when I realized something powerful…
🚀The key to breaking free wasn’t “trying harder” or “waiting for the right person” — it was transforming from the inside out.
💡And that’s exactly what I did. Through deep mindset work, subconscious rewiring, and emotional healing, I finally:
✔ Released self-doubt and stepped into confidence.
✔ Broke free from toxic cycles and limiting beliefs.
✔ Started attracting love from a place of self-worth, not fear.
Why I Created the UNSTUCK Method
I realized I wasn’t alone—so many women after divorce feel trapped by their past, overwhelmed by emotions, and unsure how to move forward.
That’s why I developed the UNSTUCK Method—a step-by-step framework designed to help women heal, reprogram their subconscious beliefs, and create a future of confidence, clarity, and aligned love.
✅Step 1: Understand & Heal Emotional Blocks
✔ Identify deep-rooted subconscious beliefs that keep you stuck.
✅Step 2: Rewire & Transform Your Subconscious Mind
✔ Use proven subconscious reprogramming techniques like PSYCH-K, affirmations, and energy work.
✅Step 3: Master Emotional Resilience & Self-Worth
✔ Shift your mindset, rebuild self-trust, and step into your power.
✅Step 4: Attract Love & Alignment with Confidence
✔ Set new relationship standards, trust yourself, and call in the love you deserve.
💡This is more than just coaching—it's a transformational journey to becoming the best version of YOU.
💖 My Mission: To Help You Break Free & Create the Life You Deserve
You are not broken. You are not unlovable. You are not stuck forever.
I’m here to guide you through the journey I took—to help you heal, trust yourself again, and attract love in a way that feels aligned, effortless, and fulfilling.
✨You don’t have to do this alone. The life you deserve is waiting for you.
🔥 Ready to Create the Life & Love You Deserve?
No matter where you are in your healing journey, I offer three powerful ways to work together, each designed to help you break free from past patterns, rebuild confidence, and step into aligned relationships.
💖 Not Sure Which Option is Right for You? Let’s Chat!
✨If you're unsure where to start, book a free clarity call and I'll help guide you to the best option for your needs.
💖 OPTION 1: The Self-Paced Course
Get Unstuck: A Step-By-Step Guide to Healing & Confidence
✅ Learn subconscious rewiring techniques to shift limiting beliefs
✅ Heal from past relationships & break negative patterns
✅ Build self-worth and attract healthier relationships
💡Perfect for self-starters who want to work at their own pace with expert guidance.
🌿 OPTION 2: Group Coaching – Emotional Mastery Academy
Join a Community of Women Committed to Growth & Healing
✅ Weekly live coaching sessions with Nikki
✅ Subconscious reprogramming & emotional mastery tools to break free from limiting beliefs
✅ Personalized guidance in a supportive sisterhood of like-minded women
✅ Accountability & connection in a high-touch, small-group setting
💡To ensure an intimate and transformational experience, each round of the Emotional Mastery Academy is capped at a limited number of participants. This allows for deeper coaching, personal attention, and a close-knit community.
🔥 OPTION 3: Mentorship – 1:1
Personalized Guidance
Exclusive Mentorship with Limited Availability to Fast-Track Transformation
✅Work privately with Nikki
to overcome deep-rooted emotional blocks
✅Customized subconscious rewiring & mindset shiftstailored to your unique journey
✅Personalized support & accountabilityto fast-track your transformation
✅Step into self-trust, confidence, and aligned decision-making
💡 This high-touch mentorship is designed for women who are fully committed to creating lasting change in love, relationships, and self-worth. Due to the intensive nature of this experience, only a few spots are available each month.
💬 Real Stories, Real Transformations
💖 "Through Nikki’s coaching, I uncovered deep-seated fears and limiting beliefs I didn’t even realize I had. Working through them changed everything—my confidence, my mindset, and how I show up in my relationships." - Tracey, 42
💖 "Nikki’s approach is unlike anything I’ve experienced. The subconscious rewiring tools and emotional mastery techniques helped me release past wounds and attract the healthiest, happiest relationship I’ve ever had.” - Rachel, 39
💖 "After my divorce, I felt lost. Nikki’s program helped me heal my self-worth, break the cycle of self-doubt, and step into a thriving version of myself. I no longer seek external validation—I trust myself fully.” - Sarah, 45
💖 "Before working with Nikki, I kept attracting emotionally unavailable partners. Through her process, I realized how my subconscious beliefs were keeping me stuck—and I finally shifted them. Now, I feel empowered, whole, and open to real love.” - Emily, 50
💡 Ready to Begin Your Transformation?
✨ You don’t have to stay stuck. Join the beautiful women who have taken this journey and stepped into self-love, confidence, and aligned relationships.
FAQS
How do I know if your coaching is right for me?
If you’re a divorced woman feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure about reentering the dating world, my coaching is designed to help you rebuild confidence, heal past wounds, and approach dating with clarity and purpose. Together, we’ll address the emotional and practical challenges you’re facing to help you create lasting transformation.
What if I don’t feel ready to start dating yet?
That’s completely okay! My coaching focuses on helping you heal and grow first, so you feel confident and empowered when the time comes to date. There’s no rush, and the journey is tailored to your pace and readiness.
How is your coaching different from therapy?
While therapy often focuses on processing past experiences, my coaching is action-oriented and forward-focused. We’ll work on practical strategies to rebuild confidence, uncover hidden patterns, and create a clear roadmap for dating and relationships, all while addressing emotional healing.
Do I have to commit to 1:1 coaching, or are there other options?
I offer a range of options to suit your needs, including a self-paced course, group coaching for community support, and 1:1 coaching for personalized guidance. You can choose what feels most aligned with your goals and lifestyle.
I feel like it’s too late for me to find love—can this still help?
Absolutely. It’s never too late to rediscover yourself and attract a loving, fulfilling relationship. My coaching will help you rewrite the story you’re telling yourself, embrace your worth, and approach dating with a fresh, empowered mindset.
What if I’ve never done coaching before?
No experience is necessary! My coaching is approachable and designed to meet you exactly where you are. You’ll feel supported every step of the way, whether you’re new to self-development or already familiar with the process.
How long will it take to see results?
Every journey is unique, but many clients begin to experience shifts in their confidence, mindset, and emotional well-being within a few weeks. The more you engage with the process, the more impactful and lasting the results will be.
How do I get started?
Getting started is easy! Simply reach out to schedule a consultation and we can explore whether my self-paced course and group or 1:1 coaching options will be the best fit for your goals and support you every step of the way.